ekimswish Posted November 17, 2012 Posted November 17, 2012 Shopping must be in response to getting drunk with the boys. Don't waste it on making her happy. Use it for stopping her from being angry. If you let her shop all the time, what line of defense will you have when you want to do something for yourself? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lyno 47 Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 man after reading these posts i now know that what i thought i knew about women could be written on the head of a pin with a jack hammer. If thats what it takes to keep your lady happy then i think i am a lost cause not that i knew very much to start with just the basics that you pick up as you meet more ladies in your life travels and they sometimes impart some of there likes and dislikes.I think in some cases they give you information just to keep you off balance so you will not have an idea as to what they are really thinking.just to keep you on your toes so to speak 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post joeatmanila Posted November 29, 2012 Popular Post Posted November 29, 2012 Hallo to all da united colors of beneton exported to pilipinas....hahahahah Pleasing and keep happy a filipina, does not take me much. Yes the retail therapy mentioned above...it is a world wide medicine to women, not only filipinas.... Respect her truly. I see quite a few "kanos" married with them just because they offer them a way out of poverty in exchange of a maid and a sex bucket. You will make this woman happy the day you die and leave her your pension to enjoy the rest of her years. Show her that you love her. It is very simple, hug her when walking in public not as your trophy but as your queen. Kiss her, a sweet momentary kiss when she tells you a nice joke or she smiles happily...do not over do it, lose the meaning then... Make her proud of you. Do not let her feel, my drunkard hubby who cares for beer more than me, my lazy fat ass kano who sit all day long waiting everything on his hands...etc Do something good, we all have a talent one way or another, make her feel proud and brag to everyone about your special skill, excluding the one in bed hehehehhe Make her understand she is the only value you need in life. Figure out how, every indivdual has different ways. Just love her for God's sake!!!! It doesn't take much and she will reciprocate 10 times more to you!!!!! Hmmm time to take my wife to the local McDonalds for coffee and people watching, we both agree 60p and 140p difference for a coffee at McDo or Starbucks does not worth it plus i need to drive 30min to closest starbucks instead of 5min to closest McDo. 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike S Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Hallo to all da united colors of beneton exported to pilipinas....hahahahah Pleasing and keep happy a filipina, does not take me much. Yes the retail therapy mentioned above...it is a world wide medicine to women, not only filipinas.... Respect her truly. I see quite a few "kanos" married with them just because they offer them a way out of poverty in exchange of a maid and a sex bucket. You will make this woman happy the day you die and leave her your pension to enjoy the rest of her years. Show her that you love her. It is very simple, hug her when walking in public not as your trophy but as your queen. Kiss her, a sweet momentary kiss when she tells you a nice joke or she smiles happily...do not over do it, lose the meaning then... Make her proud of you. Do not let her feel, my drunkard hubby who cares for beer more than me, my lazy fat ass kano who sit all day long waiting everything on his hands...etc Do something good, we all have a talent one way or another, make her feel proud and brag to everyone about your special skill, excluding the one in bed hehehehhe Make her understand she is the only value you need in life. Figure out how, every indivdual has different ways. Just love her for God's sake!!!! It doesn't take much and she will reciprocate 10 times more to you!!!!! Hmmm time to take my wife to the local McDonalds for coffee and people watching, we both agree 60p and 140p difference for a coffee at McDo or Starbucks does not worth it plus i need to drive 30min to closest starbucks instead of 5min to closest McDo. Well said sir ....... :AddEmoticons04230: :th_thbestpost: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 man after reading these posts i now know that what i thought i knew about women could be written on the head of a pin with a jack hammer. If thats what it takes to keep your lady happy then i think i am a lost cause not that i knew very much to start with just the basics that you pick up as you meet more ladies in your life travels and they sometimes impart some of there likes and dislikes.I think in some cases they give you information just to keep you off balance so you will not have an idea as to what they are really thinking.just to keep you on your toes so to speak Well. I believe you have missunderstood that too :) Most women think they have said it, although it was just a hint. =Other women understood it, while most men haven't even a clue she said it :hystery: An example: A couple are in a dinner/party: -Nice dress you have, says an other woman to the woman. When the other woman isn't close anymore: -She was nice, says the man while the woman is embarrased/angry, because the other woman recently insulted her by saying it with an insulting tone, to small to be noticed by the man... A classic: A couple are travelling long distance by car with the man driving, and there is a sign telling it will be a coffee shop soon. -It would be nice with a cup of coffee, says the woman. -Yes, says the man go on driving passing the coffee shop. The woman become grumpy and the man wondering why, and she don't answer, because in her mind she has told it allready, while the man have no clue why :hystery: 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 I could remember when I was courting my wife for several months via love letters, poetry, flowers and expensive AT&T operator assist (1980's). I was always thinking about her, telling her sweet nothings and promising her the world. Upon her arrival to US on a fiances visa, we promptly got married and made babies. At this point in our marriage (27 years), I ask myself what happen to all those sweet nothings? What happen to us? Did we eventually took each other for granted because we're locked in the sacred vows of marriage and children? When did I stop treating her not as my lover but as my closest friend? Remember that courtship of flowers, chocolate and opening doors for her? It was a true friendship of two strangers falling in love. These days, falling out of love is easy but I think it's more hurtful if the friendship is no longer there. How do you get the fire going again? How can you re-ignite the hot passion that was so intense during your courtship? The Filipina among all others has the heart of gold. In most cases, she doesn't have the ego like we do. All we do is pout, get drunk and beg or demand for more sex while she is dead tired. So what's my secret of staying happily married (most of the time) for 27 years? I think it's the small, insignificant surprises that I give her. For example, a single rose on a non-special day without any strings attach. A small kiss on her ear and holding hands in public and telling her sweet nothings again. I am truly blessed, respectfully -- Jake 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forum Support Old55 Posted November 29, 2012 Forum Support Posted November 29, 2012 My wife and I still go on dates. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 My wife and I still go on dates. Hopefully with each other.....he, he. On very special occasions, I would surprise Judy by going to the local casino (Pechanga Resort and Casino) and pig out on their buffet. And then I would surprise her with a nice overnight stay at the hotel. It's like a mini-honeymoon away from the kids. Ooh la-la -- Jake 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julia Posted November 29, 2012 Author Posted November 29, 2012 Remember that courtship of flowers, chocolate and opening doors for her? It was a true friendship of two strangers falling in love. These days, falling out of love is easy but I think it's more hurtful if the friendship is no longer there. How do you get the fire going again? How can you re-ignite the hot passion that was so intense during your courtship? The Filipina among all others has the heart of gold. In most cases, she doesn't have the ego like we do. All we do is pout, get drunk and beg or demand for more sex while she is dead tired. So what's my secret of staying happily married (most of the time) for 27 years? I think it's the small, insignificant surprises that I give her. For example, a single rose on a non-special day without any strings attach. A small kiss on her ear and holding hands in public and telling her sweet nothings again. Wow! You are one of a kind, Jake! :10001: :10001: :10001: Seriously, Jake, I just want to salute your mother for raising you well! :cheersty: 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas Posted November 29, 2012 Posted November 29, 2012 Wow! You are one of a kind, Jake! Seriously, Jake, I just want to salute your mother for raising you well! Like This Selective Quote Top Quote MultiQuote Are you sure it isn't his wife, who has domesticated him well? :) Well done, Jake! 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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