Most Deadbeat Parent Arrested After Being Nabbed In Philippines

[Dave Hounddriver]

I think all parents who fail to provide for their children should be held accountable.

Well said. And while there are some areas we disagree, this part says it all.

[i am bob]

this guy was just a deadbeat dad but there are a lot more out there who are really being taken for all they have got...

If a father has to pay child support, there should be an accounting of every penny he pays into it and the mother held accountable for every penny being used for the child / children.

In my case, my child support paid off the mortgage for my ex and built up her bank account, helped buy a nice size cruiser (boat with a cabin), 4wd sport utility and a bunch of other toys - 6 months before my child support was to end. She had been banking it after the mortgage was paid off and my kids got nothing.

[Bigdog]

There is no accountability on the part of the ex on the way they spend the child support , and if you think the courts will demand it then you are sadly mistaken....i tried that avenue and after it taking almost 18 months to even get my day in court , it took less than 10 minutes for the judge to make it clear that i had NO RECOURSE as to how the money was spent .. i have no problem supporting my children ,i do have a problem when @ $1800/mth I still have to buy thier school cloths, supplies and sports fee's.. The judge wasnt interested at all about where the money was spent , only on how much i made and the percentage that was set as CS.... but i survived 13 years of it and my kids are happy and healthy..figured the CS was just the F***ing i was getting for the F****ing i got..

[Call me bubba]

good post, :thumbsup: NO its the best you have shared w/us OKIEBOY in a long time, :christmas_emoticons_187:

all children should have 2 parents. if 1 cant is unable to help. then that child should have the support.love.care to make the best out of his/her life,

if a parent cant "feed"(support) them then DONT BREED THEM.

glad that this "male"(not man nor father he be) was caught,

Good work to the BI for deporting this man :icon_GreatJobKao: ,

shows that they are on the job.or using the info they have received to make the RP less-desirable for certain persons,,

I just hope that the money thats due will be used to help the CHILD not the ex-wife .

[i am bob]

You know, Bigdog, we could start a forum of our own just for divorced dads... but my kids are grown and on their own now...

And I would rather concentrate on this forum and a great new life in the Philippines which will piss off the ex even more!

:36_6_3[1]: :36_1_68[1]: :thumbs-up-smile:

[Bigdog]

somehow i doubt his exwife was living under a bridge scrounging scraps to feed the kids...wheres her accountability?

[nor cal mike]

somehow i doubt his exwife was living under a bridge scrounging scraps to feed the kids...wheres her accountability?

So are you saying that because the wife and kids were not living under a bridge, it's ok for him to take off to Thailand or the Philippines and abandon his responsibilities to his children?

Besides you have no idea what her circumstances were.

[nor cal mike]

She had been banking it after the mortgage was paid off and my kids got nothing.

Who was feeding, clothing and providing shelter for your children?

[Bigdog]

not at all am i saying that , but when was it desided that the father assumes all finacial responsability for the children..and really you think that after a divorce and being awarded child support in the area of 2k/mth the wife was left with nothing? hahahhahaah.. i agree one hundred percent that a FATHER should support his children , i disagree one hundred percent that there is ZERO accountability on the part of the recipient as to how the money is spent/invested...

[Call me bubba]

somehow i doubt his exwife was living under a bridge scrounging scraps to feed the kids...wheres her accountability?

So are you saying that because the wife and kids were not living under a bridge, it's ok for him to take off to Thailand or the Philippines and abandon his responsibilities to his children?

Besides you have no idea what her circumstances were.

simple way to find out, GOOGLE or search his case. then share us the results

however, the last time I did a "google"search,

I had the Service canadien du renseignement de sécurité &Säkerhetspolisen at my door step asking questions :th_hu: