Corporal Punishment

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Jack Peterson
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I was most surprised yesterday, as I walked the Dog. During the last 3 months or so (since we started the build.) I have got used, to seeing most, of my local neighbours up and down the road, many, duly congregating around the two stores we have in the vicinity, like any shop, a point for wagging tongues :mocking: . The kids are kids, some cheeky others comical :) ( give me money, is the way of saying hello )

Anyway, Yesterday, I witnessed something I have never seen herebefore, A mother, take a piece of tree branch and proceed to lay into a boy of about 10 or 11, for what reason, I know not but I could sense, back chat

I grew up in the days where the Slipper or cane at school, was it seems, a teachers reward of a bad day, as he administered the punishment. A clip round the ear, from the local bobby (Policeman) was preferable, to being taken home by him or Dad fetching me home from the police station. time goes bye and we wonder, what is happening to our Youth of today

Now of course Corporal Punishment is a thing of the past, illegal and considered, abuse and /or assault.

Has any one else ever come across this ? I have always said a good clip around the ear from parents and family, could help sort out, our local Kids, many, without a little discipline, something surely Lacking, that could, be put right. in fact, How about a topic, on the Pros and Cons. of Corporal Punishment and whether it would serve any purpose. :unsure:

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NO! ​I am No sadist, I just wondered what others thought. :unsure:

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Old55
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The Filipino way is the withholding of love or family-clan membership a fate wost than death.

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Jack Peterson
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The Filipino way is the withholding of love or family-clan membership a fate wost than death.

:unsure: Ah OK, well, I guess this mother, has been watching to much TV maybe.

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Dave Hounddriver
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Now of course Corporal Punishment is a thing of the past, illegal and considered, abuse and /or assault.

I think this could be an interesting conversation but when you put it that way, I wonder if its one the forum owner wants to have. But lets give it a go. I would say that if parents used the common sense God gave them then physically punishing a child is not necessarily abuse or assault. I say common sense because you have to know your child. One child will accept that he is being disciplined and would rather have a swat on the butt than an hour long lecture. Another child may think you just don't love her any more because you hit her.

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Jack Peterson
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I think this could be an interesting conversation but when you put it that way, I wonder if its one the forum owner wants to have. But lets give it a go.

I take your point entirely Dave. Normally I would not venture on a topic like this. Controversial, to say the least. (I hope any replies will reflect these thoughts) As I said, I was most, surprised, to see it happen, that just, well, made me think a little.

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Jack Peterson
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However, it is my belief that it does more good in their formative years like 3 to 9. If they have not learned to respect their parents rules by then it may be a lost cause.

Dave, if I could find the 10 like button, you would have all 10 :)

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Jack Peterson
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There is no such thing as a perfect parent. There are no books, seminars and therapy sessions on how to become one either. And therefore, many of life's choices are made in haste, without thinking of accountability or remorse.

Spoken Like a true Father ( believe it or not Jake.) we all of us I am sure, had or will have at some stage, the thoughts portrayed here. It is not easy to be a parent, and the kids don't help any.

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stevewool
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when we was younger we had the slipper and the cane did it stop us being unruly, not at all, at home we had to go and get our own piece of privet hedge so my dad could whip our butt with it, if it was to small he would go and get a piece, then he just put it against the fireplace ready to use it, he never did but it was a warning , being one of 8 sons you can imagine our household, we was always cheeky never ever to our elders because they would just clip you round your ear hole, and wow be tide if they ever told your dad,did it ever stop us not at all, but i am afraid todays youth are a totally different ball game,

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