Child Brides : No Mention Of Philippines.

[Bruce]

Off foxnews.com

 

More than a third of young girls forced to marry or face beatings, death in 42 countries
 

Published March 08, 2013

Associated Press

 

July 18, 2012 - FILE photo of Zali Idy, 12, posing in her bedroom in the remote village of Hawkantaki, Niger. Zali was married in 2011. (AP)

JUBA, South Sudan –  The 17-year-old beaten to death for refusing to marry a man old enough to be her grandfather. The teen dragged by her family to be raped to force her into marrying an elderly man. They are among 39,000 girls forced into marriage every day around the world, sold like cattle to enrich their families.

More than one-third of all girls are married in 42 countries, according to the U.N. Population Fund, referring to females under the age of 18. The highest number of cases occurs in some of the poorest countries, the agency figures show, with the West African nation of Niger at the bottom of the list with 75 percent of girls married before they turn 18. In Bangladesh the figure is 66 percent and in Central African Republic and Chad it is 68 percent.

Most child marriages take place in South Asia and rural sub-Saharan Africa, according to the population fund. In terms of absolute numbers, India, because of its large population, has the most child marriages with child brides in 47 percent of all marriages.

Government statistics in South Sudan show half the girls there aged 15 to 19 are married, with some brides as young as 12 years old.

"The country's widespread child marriage exacerbates South Sudan's pronounced gender gaps in school enrollment, contributes to soaring maternal mortality rates, and violates the right of girls to be free from violence," says a Human Rights Watch report published Thursday ahead of International Women's Day on Friday.

The report blames child marriage in part for an appallingly low female school attendance, with girls making up only 39 percent of primary school students and 30 percent at secondary school.

A UNICEF report this month blamed child marriage in part for poor school attendance figures in Congo, where one in four children are not in school.

Child marriage is not common in South Africa, where prosecutors are investigating what charges can be brought in the case of a 13-year-old epileptic girl who was forced to leave school and marry a 57-year-old traditional healer in January.

Human Rights Watch said that in South Sudan there is a "near total lack of protection" for victims who try to resist marriage or to leave abusive marriages. It called for a coordinated government response including more training for police and prosecutors on girls' rights to protection.

Aguet N. of South Sudan, for example, was married to a 75-year-old man when she was 15 years old, according to testimony she gave to Human Rights Watch.

"This man went to my uncles and paid a dowry of 80 cows. I resisted the marriage. They threatened me," the report said. "They said, `If you want your siblings to be taken care of, you will marry this man.' I said he is too old for me. They said, `You will marry this old man whether you like it or not because he has given us something to eat.' They beat me so badly. They also beat my mother because she was against the marriage."

Reducing child marriages is key to achieving U.N. millennium goals to improve child mortality and reduce maternal deaths, according to Malawi's Health Minister Catherine Gotani Hara. She said teen pregnancies accounted for up to 30 percent of maternal deaths in that southern African country.

"By ending early marriages we can avert up to 30 percent of maternal deaths and also reduce the neonatal mortality rate," she said in a statement published by the World Health Organization.

Complications of pregnancy and childbirth are leading causes of death in young women aged 15 to 19 years in developing countries, according to Dr. Flavia Bustreo of the WHO.

Early marriages also will prevent South Sudan from achieving the goal of having women hold 25 percent of government jobs, said Lorna James Elia of the local Voices for Change advocacy group.

She said women activists grouped under a project "Girls, Not Brides," are trying to engage community leaders and traditional chiefs to end early and forced marriages.

Young brides also confront more violence, according to U.N. studies: Girls who marry before they are 18 are more likely to become victims of violence from their partner, with the risk increasing as the age gap between the couple gets larger.

Traditionally, poor families marry off young girls to reduce the family expenses on food, clothing and education. A big incentive can be the dowries older men will pay for a young bride, sometimes hundreds of cows.

Another South Sudan child bride, Ageer M., told Human Rights Watch, "The man I loved did not have cows and my uncles rejected him. My husband paid 120 cows. ... I refused him but they beat me badly and took me by force to him. The man forced me to have sex with him so I had to stay there."

In South Sudan, and some other countries, early marriage is seen as a way to protect girls from sexual violence and ensure that they do not bring dishonor on the family by getting pregnant out of wedlock.

Human Rights Watch called for South Sudan's government to clearly set 18 as the minimum age for marriage. But the country's minister for gender and child affairs, Agnes Kwaje Losuba, said the Child's Act already does that.

"We need to make sure this is implemented," she said.

 

[Tukaram (Tim)]

i have never understood what makes people think it is ok to force their morals on another country.

whether i think it is right or wrong it is not my place to tell someone else how to live.

[Bruce]

I read this and then something did not seem right to me. So I looked again. Says 80 to 100 cows is the price for a bride. WHAT? So I googled cow prices in Sudan and came up with several referrences starting at $100 a cow. And up .

 

So some old man is supposed to be paying $8,000 and UP for a bride? Some old guy in dirt poor Sudan? Well, just how many old guys are there willing to pay $8,000 and UP for a bride? The math does not add up.

 

What about those news articles about buying a teen in India or SE Asia for $200 - $300? Why such a stark contrast?   

 

The article sems to be more about the lack of rights and options these girls have as compared to the usual child molester articles. But as a balance, I see no success stories. No effort made to find the girls who married without drama either due to a felt family obligation or for food and a more secure life?  

 

I guess I have trouble believing that there are more than a handfull of stupid old men willing to part with the cows or the $8,000 cash and UP for a bride.  

Edited March 9, 2013 by Bruce

[JJReyes]

Not too long ago, Western societies married off their young girls as soon as they reached puberty. This was the origins of the debutante ball or "despedida del soltera" (farewell of the single) in Spanish culture. Until recently, a girl in the Philippines was permitted to marry at age fourteen with the consent of her parents. The Bush "W" administration pressured the Philippine government to change the marriage age with consent.

 

Girls have rights, so it is wrong to force them into marriage. The same with boys. No more shotgun marriages as practiced in some Southern states. In some societies, the girl's family pays a dowry to compensate the boy's family for taking care of their daughter. Other cultures it is the opposite. The boy's family compensates the girl's family for the loss of her labor.

Edited March 9, 2013 by JJReyes

[Bruce]

Not too long ago, Western societies married off their young girls as soon as they reached puberty. This was the origins of the debutante ball or "despedida del soltera" (farewell of the single) in Spanish culture. Until recently, a girl in the Philippines was permitted to marry at age fourteen with the consent of her parents. The Bush "W" administration pressured the Philippine government to change the marriage age with consent.

 

Girls have rights, so it is wrong to force them into marriage. The same with boys. No more shotgun marriages as practiced in some Southern states. In some societies, the girl's family pays a dowry to compensate the boy's family for taking care of their daughter. Other cultures it is the opposite. The boy's family compensates the girl's family for the loss of her labor.

 

Just call me pragmatic... but I prefer a 'lease, with option to buy'.  

[JJReyes]

Just call me pragmatic... but I prefer a 'lease, with option to buy'.

 

The Philippine policy is, "No exchange. No return." If you offer, "lease, with option to buy," the appropriate response is, "Out of stock."