Girlfriend Promised To Muslim

[Papa Carl]

Jake, not sure I would have used these words, "who has intimate knowledge of the ladies working in various call

centers and nursing schools."

 

You make it sound....., so intimate!   :nudie:

 

Well I guess I should be thankful you did not say "carnal knowledge"   :hystery:

 

 

Papa Carl

[Tukaram (Tim)]

I talked to some girls on dating sites and too many seemed like scams, or worrse - so desperate they would marry ANY foreigner.  Just to get a foreigner (first post: "read your profile, I love you!").  But I met one girl on DateInAsia and we hit it off as friends, no 'spark' just friends.  Moved from DIA to Facebook and eventually to our real Facebook accounts (That is a big move ha ha!).  When I was ready to move to the PI's I asked her if she had any friends that would be good for me.  She gave me one contact and we actually hit it off great!  We talked online for 7 months while I finalized everything, and she met me at the airport (I was moving anyway).  Been living together 7 months so far and it has been really super!

 

It is probably best to wait until you get over here and it should be easy to meet tons of gilrs.  I am over weight, gray haired, have bad teeth, and I almost always with my girlfriend - and girls still flirt with me ALL the time!  Picking out the right one may be difficult...   :tiphat:

[JJReyes]

How much will you give me for my wife?  

 

Ouch!

 

 

 How much are you offering to take her off your hands???...

 

Ouch! Ouch!

 

Wrong forum for this kind of exchanges. Some forum visitors may think you are serious. You are both kidding, right? 

Edited September 11, 2013 by JJReyes

[davewe]

I talked to some girls on dating sites and too many seemed like scams, or worrse - so desperate they would marry ANY foreigner.  Just to get a foreigner (first post: "read your profile, I love you!").  But I met one girl on DateInAsia and we hit it off as friends, no 'spark' just friends.  Moved from DIA to Facebook and eventually to our real Facebook accounts (That is a big move ha ha!).  When I was ready to move to the PI's I asked her if she had any friends that would be good for me.  She gave me one contact and we actually hit it off great!  We talked online for 7 months while I finalized everything, and she met me at the airport (I was moving anyway).  Been living together 7 months so far and it has been really super!

 

It is probably best to wait until you get over here and it should be easy to meet tons of gilrs.  I am over weight, gray haired, have bad teeth, and I almost always with my girlfriend - and girls still flirt with me ALL the time!  Picking out the right one may be difficult...   :tiphat:

I think you can navigate the online dating thing successfully; it has pitfalls but allows you to meet many people, get a feel for the culture and attitudes and then when you arrive you can meet one or several.

 

However, I really like the idea of making friends who can then either recommend good girls or at least check out the girls you are interested in. At first I had a relationship with a girl who turned out not to be so good (ironically, religion and her father's opposition was involved in this as well - at least that's what she said). After we broke up, several of my Pinay friends admitted they did not care for her. I began a relationship with a girl I was friends with online for about a year. After we began a relationship I had all my Pinay friends, as well as my sister, friend her on FB. They fell in love with her as had I and everyone agreed that she was a good one. They had all better be right; we're getting married on the 22nd :)

Edited September 11, 2013 by davewe

[i am bob]

I talked to some girls on dating sites and too many seemed like scams, or worrse - so desperate they would marry ANY foreigner. Just to get a foreigner (first post: "read your profile, I love you!"). But I met one girl on DateInAsia and we hit it off as friends, no 'spark' just friends. Moved from DIA to Facebook and eventually to our real Facebook accounts (That is a big move ha ha!). When I was ready to move to the PI's I asked her if she had any friends that would be good for me. She gave me one contact and we actually hit it off great! We talked online for 7 months while I finalized everything, and she met me at the airport (I was moving anyway). Been living together 7 months so far and it has been really super!

It is probably best to wait until you get over here and it should be easy to meet tons of gilrs. I am over weight, gray haired, have bad teeth, and I almost always with my girlfriend - and girls still flirt with me ALL the time! Picking out the right one may be difficult... :tiphat:

I think you can navigate the online dating thing successfully; it has pitfalls but allows you to meet many people, get a feel for the culture and attitudes and then when you arrive you can meet one or several.

However, I really like the idea of making friends who can then either recommend good girls or at least check out the girls you are interested in. At first I had a relationship with a girl who turned out not to be so good (ironically, religion and her father's opposition was involved in this as well - at least that's what she said). After we broke up, several of my Pinay friends admitted they did not care for her. I began a relationship with a girl I was friends with online for about a year. After we began a relationship I had all my Pinay friends, as well as my sister, friend her on FB. They fell in love with her as had I and everyone agreed that she was a good one. They had all better be right; we're getting married on the 22nd :)

And a definitely huge CONGRATULATIONS !!!

[Jollygoodfellow]

 

How much will you give me for my wife?  

 

Ouch!

 

 

 How much are you offering to take her off your hands???...

 

Ouch! Ouch!

 

Wrong forum for this kind of exchanges. Some forum visitors may think you are serious. You are both kidding, right? 

 

 

If their not joking then I have to receive a commission on the sale, don't I ??   :hystery: just consulting my fees , ah here it is, used wife, 10% of final price.  :mocking:

[Jollygoodfellow]

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[Bigdog]

 

 

How much will you give me for my wife?  

 

Ouch!

 

 

 How much are you offering to take her off your hands???...

 

Ouch! Ouch!

 

Wrong forum for this kind of exchanges. Some forum visitors may think you are serious. You are both kidding, right? 

 

 

If their not joking then I have to receive a commission on the sale, don't I ??   :hystery: just consulting my fees , ah here it is, used wife, 10% of final price.  :mocking:

 

 In the words of Henry Youngman "Take my wife.....Please . "

 

yes JJR its humor lol ... Bossman I think your commission was included in the entry fee to this site , youget what you pay for !! hahaha

[Dave Hounddriver]

We have gotten a little bit away from the topic of girlfriends promised to Muslims but lets take a closer look.

 

A lot of girls in the Visayas have their roots in Mindanao.  Many have Muslim family members back there.  I start to wonder how many of them were promised to Muslims at an early age and ran off.  What are the chances that anyone would find out later that a girl he was dating, who was born in Mindanao, was promised to a Muslim at some time?

[Julia]

Do you have any thoughts as to how, and where I still can meet a good woman?

 

I just thought this article  which I read in a certain site is worth sharing with you, JWilliams.

 

12 TRAITS OF A GOOD WOMAN (by mrwils)

 

Most of men's problem is finding a good woman. Some men have been deceived and dazed by a woman's looks, at some point in their lives. Many of them have wasted countless hours and spent fortunes chasing after women who lied to them and basically treated them like dirt. Some regret the lost opportunity to the marry a woman who was not exactly physically attractive but was a good woman.

Below some attributes of a good woman:

 

1. She is family oriented: She has a close relationship with her family and avoids bad worldly external elements that may taint its sanctity and purity.

2. Compassionate and gentle: Avoids yelling and hurtful confrontational words that can later cause long term damage and resentment.

3. She has a big heart: Thinks about others and knows how to talk to them and treat them.

4. Unselfish: Considers you in every situation. She does her part of the work in the relationship to make it strong.

5. Good with kids: If she is unable to be patient and understanding with kids, it is quite possible that she will not be able to be patient and understanding with you.

 

6. Cooks and cleans well: Women are virtually useless if they do not have domestic skills. Don't get me wrong, men should learn these things too. It's just that you should expect this from women just like women expect a man to buy her a drink. They naturally attain a gift for maintaining life at home with every gentle touch. What a beautiful thing.

7. Patient: Sometimes this may be difficult given that time of month but a good woman will have patience. She will not rush you into saying "I Love You", living together or getting married in the first week of the relationship. Watch out for women who rush into things without giving it some time. Nine times out of ten it's not because you are "different from any other guy she's met", and has done this many times before.

8. Sense of humor: If she has a good sense of humor and loves to laugh most of the time. This is a big plus. Her willingness to have fun and play around. Pillow fights, air hockey battles, bowling, play wrestling, dancing, and singing are among some simple examples. Life is not that serious all the time so we must learn to drop our corporate grown-up act occasionally. We are all still children.

9. Tactful with class: One way to tell if a woman has tact is the way she eats. If she devours food and acts as if nothing else around her exists, that's not good. There is nothing more disappointing than a female slob.

10. Can enjoy and appreciate the simple things: A good woman should be able to enjoy the simplest things in life. Sitting down together and talking over some tea or wine. If she is not able to enjoy the bare minimum, it's time to look for somebody new. A good woman appreciates what she has been given. It's the simplest things in life that count.

11. Hard working: Is positive about her job and works hard at it. Does not complain and nag about work all the time. Knows how to save her money and spend it realistically (not caught up in lavish living unless affordable). She does not use your money all the time and belittle you for not having enough.

12. Honest: A good woman is not afraid to tell you the truth even though you may not like it.

 

I hope this helps in your search for a good woman.

 

Opps, :444: ! :bonk: :bonk: :bonk:

 

Maybe finding the right partner in life should follow the 99/1 rule. If you spend 99% effort and patience in your search for this good woman, the probability of having a miserable marriage life is only 1%. But if you only spend 1% time and effort in your search, the 99% will be your chance in living the rest of your life in misery. I didn't make that up,  just heard that from somewhere :89:

Edited September 15, 2013 by ako si julia