Girlfriend Promised To Muslim

[Gingging]

 

Do you have any thoughts as to how, and where I still can meet a good woman?

 

I just thought this article  which I read in a certain site is worth sharing with you, JWilliams.

 

12 TRAITS OF A GOOD WOMAN (by mrwils)

 

Most of men's problem is finding a good woman. Some men have been deceived and dazed by a woman's looks, at some point in their lives. Many of them have wasted countless hours and spent fortunes chasing after women who lied to them and basically treated them like dirt. Some regret the lost opportunity to the marry a woman who was not exactly physically attractive but was a good woman.

Below some attributes of a good woman:

 

1. She is family oriented: She has a close relationship with her family and avoids bad worldly external elements that may taint its sanctity and purity.

2. Compassionate and gentle: Avoids yelling and hurtful confrontational words that can later cause long term damage and resentment.

3. She has a big heart: Thinks about others and knows how to talk to them and treat them.

4. Unselfish: Considers you in every situation. She does her part of the work in the relationship to make it strong.

5. Good with kids: If she is unable to be patient and understanding with kids, it is quite possible that she will not be able to be patient and understanding with you.

 

6. Cooks and cleans well: Women are virtually useless if they do not have domestic skills. Don't get me wrong, men should learn these things too. It's just that you should expect this from women just like women expect a man to buy her a drink. They naturally attain a gift for maintaining life at home with every gentle touch. What a beautiful thing.

7. Patient: Sometimes this may be difficult given that time of month but a good woman will have patience. She will not rush you into saying "I Love You", living together or getting married in the first week of the relationship. Watch out for women who rush into things without giving it some time. Nine times out of ten it's not because you are "different from any other guy she's met", and has done this many times before.

8. Sense of humor: If she has a good sense of humor and loves to laugh most of the time. This is a big plus. Her willingness to have fun and play around. Pillow fights, air hockey battles, bowling, play wrestling, dancing, and singing are among some simple examples. Life is not that serious all the time so we must learn to drop our corporate grown-up act occasionally. We are all still children.

9. Tactful with class: One way to tell if a woman has tact is the way she eats. If she devours food and acts as if nothing else around her exists, that's not good. There is nothing more disappointing than a female slob.

10. Can enjoy and appreciate the simple things: A good woman should be able to enjoy the simplest things in life. Sitting down together and talking over some tea or wine. If she is not able to enjoy the bare minimum, it's time to look for somebody new. A good woman appreciates what she has been given. It's the simplest things in life that count.

11. Hard working: Is positive about her job and works hard at it. Does not complain and nag about work all the time. Knows how to save her money and spend it realistically (not caught up in lavish living unless affordable). She does not use your money all the time and belittle you for not having enough.

12. Honest: A good woman is not afraid to tell you the truth even though you may not like it.

 

I hope this helps in your search for a good woman.

 

Opps, :444: ! :bonk: :bonk: :bonk:

 

 

so I am a good woman, Ate Juliet! like your post, ate...

[Dave Hounddriver]

5. Good with kids: If she is unable to be patient and understanding with kids, it is quite possible that she will not be able to be patient and understanding with you.

 

Ain't that the truth  :hystery:

[Thomas]

Or as the founder of "Duck Dynasty" (=A redneck family, who has a rather big company producing and selling things related to duck hunting) adviced his grandson concerning finding a good wife:

(Something like)

-The looks of a wife isn't important, but it's very important she like and is good at cooking squarel brains.

:hystery:

[Ashanti]

 

Do you have any thoughts as to how, and where I still can meet a good woman?

 

How much will you give me for my wife?  

 

 

:hystery:  :hystery:  :hystery:  ...............

 

sorry J ............  dont mean any disrespect!!!

 

But the reply above is just too funny for me to hold my laugther in .......... :lol:

[JWilliams]

Hello All,

 

I am still amazed at the attention you all give to my topic, the humor and the great advice. To follow up with you all. I have dropped her and she does not call me anymore. In fact, we still have never video chatted which to me means she wasn’t the woman in the picture she sent me. I see it has a learning opportunity and if I ever write a book, that’s where I will get a return on my investment.

 

Best Regards,

-John

[Ashanti]

Maybe finding the right partner in life should follow the 99/1 rule. If you spend 99% effort and patience in your search for this good woman, the probability of having a miserable marriage life is only 1%. But if you only spend 1% time and effort in your search, the 99% will be your chance in living the rest of your life in misery. I didn't make that up,  just heard that from somewhere

 

 

Julia, may i suggest to scrap the blues -  theyre RUBBISH!

 

the above are more closer to it - me think ............ but hey, that just my opinion - we all make our own destiny - and noones' life are the same ...........

[Thomas]

In fact, we still have never video chatted which to me means she wasn’t the woman in the picture she sent me.

Are you sure? Women can look very different different times  :)

 

(E g a woman I compeeted in dance with looked as 4 different WITHOUT changing make up, just hair and mood  :lol:

and an ex gf could look as 11 different, luckily I saw the bad ones before we married  :hystery:

 

 

But I believe you, they were different.

A friend of mine have went to meet some women, which he had met in datingsites. One had put a photo of her sister, an other of her cousin "because they are more beautiful" they had as explaination !  :mocking:  don't bothering if they are very different personalities. Perhaps they FAILE to be contacted by suiting men by showing false photo-personality...  :)

But similar goes for some men in datingsites too have some of my Filipina friends told me, although perhaps not put in photo of other person, but a photo taken when they had lived 10-15 years less. Or tell false data in the profile. One asked me for advice and showed photo yesterday if a man, who had contacted her, realy could be 52. When she asked him later, he added 10 years - but I believe the truth is 20 years  :)

As if false/old photos and such wouldn't be noticed when meeting!  :)

[Jake]

Hello All,

 

I am still amazed at the attention you all give to my topic, the humor and the great advice. To follow up with you all. I have dropped her and she does not call me anymore. In fact, we still have never video chatted which to me means she wasn’t the woman in the picture she sent me. I see it has a learning opportunity and if I ever write a book, that’s where I will get a return on my investment.

 

Best Regards,

-John

Hello JW,

 

Believe me, you're not alone here.  We have all gone through our own personal melodrama when it

comes to the matters of the heart.  For some members, it's a steep learning curve trying to gather

enough courage just to date again.  Also for some members, being rejected by the opposite sex can

be a traumatic experience.  And finally, after spilling your heart out, you find out your potential soul

mate is a fraud.  Oh well, life does go on....... 

 

We wish you the very best, respectfully -- Jake 

[Dave Hounddriver]

 We have all gone through our own personal melodrama when it comes to the matters of the heart.

 

Amen.  Some things we come here to talk about and other things we keep closer to the heart but we have all gone through it.

[sonjack2847]

My Advice to anyone looking for a partner here would be ( if possible) to come here for 3 months plus and move out of the bigger cities and meet a local girl who is imho going to be less spoiled than one from the big city and a much better option for long term.