til Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Man you read things that are not there,it says nothing about a girlyboy,it says a gay,not all wear womens clothes and makeup.That may be true in western countries, but in the philippines a gay dresses as a woman, if he doesn't he is not "gay".It's the way they use the word, but maybe there is even more to it. Somehow a different concept of gender identitiy and homosexuality. I dont even know if the "gays" have sex with eachother or what.Don't ask me why, but thats the way it is.Example: My gf told me she saw a gay and a normal man kissing in the disco. I told her, well I guess they where both gay (homosexual) then. But she insisted one of them was a normal man. I wonder what she would call it if to normal men have sex with eachother? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daisy Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Man you read things that are not there,it says nothing about a girlyboy,it says a gay,not all wear womens clothes and makeup.That may be true in western countries, but in the philippines a gay dresses as a woman, if he doesn't he is not "gay".It's the way they use the word, but maybe there is even more to it. Somehow a different concept of gender identitiy and homosexuality. I dont even know if the "gays" have sex with eachother or what.Don't ask me why, but thats the way it is.Example: My gf told me she saw a gay and a normal man kissing in the disco. I told her, well I guess they where both gay (homosexual) then. But she insisted one of them was a normal man. I wonder what she would call it if to normal men have sex with eachother?I have no " idea " where you get your references to gay men dressing as a woman as that would be " transvietite " ( sp ) I have encountered many male gays in this country including our own and trust me .. they do not dress as women . :-) If you don't know if gays have sex with each other then you don't know what gay's are . Simple ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jollygoodfellow Posted June 19, 2009 Posted June 19, 2009 Man you read things that are not there,it says nothing about a girlyboy,it says a gay,not all wear womens clothes and makeup.That may be true in western countries, but in the philippines a gay dresses as a woman, if he doesn't he is not "gay".It's the way they use the word, but maybe there is even more to it. Somehow a different concept of gender identitiy and homosexuality. I dont even know if the "gays" have sex with eachother or what.Don't ask me why, but thats the way it is.Example: My gf told me she saw a gay and a normal man kissing in the disco. I told her, well I guess they where both gay (homosexual) then. But she insisted one of them was a normal man. I wonder what she would call it if to normal men have sex with eachother?I have no " idea " where you get your references to gay men dressing as a woman as that would be " transvietite " ( sp ) I have encountered many male gays in this country including our own and trust me .. they do not dress as women . :-) If you don't know if gays have sex with each other then you don't know what gay's are . Simple ! I have no " idea " where you get your references to gay men dressing as a woman as that would be " transvietiteYou have not heard of Ladyboys??? It may well be called a transvestite in the western world but I have not heard of that term used in the Philippines. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chimellie Posted June 20, 2009 Posted June 20, 2009 (edited) I have gay friends in Cebu and all of them told me they prefer straight men, I also work with some gay men in the US, they all have gay boyfriends. I don't get it. I took this pic while I was in Cebu . Edited June 20, 2009 by chimellie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mik Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 I think there are two kinds of gay men here. One is a feminized or effeminate male who thinks of himself as a woman and desires straight males as a regular woman does. The other type is a masculine homosexual who desires other homosexual men. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brock Posted June 21, 2009 Posted June 21, 2009 I think a gay is someone who is attracted to the same gender, either gay or straight....A ladyboy looks upon themselves as a woman and therefor likes men...unless the ladyboy is gay, in which case she/he would like women.....but in my mind it is much better to be bisexual...that way you have double the chances of pulling someone on a night out :th_thsmilies-29057: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Malibogmike Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 Well in my travels in Thailand if it looks to good check it or ask.But no need to get mad and start fighting about it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brock Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 I agree, you just got to brush these things to one side, :th_thsmilies-29057: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
til Posted June 22, 2009 Posted June 22, 2009 I read about a scientific study, where the researchers were surprised to discover, that homophobic males (hating gays) got more sexually aroused when watching gay porn, than males with a more relaxed attitude toward homosexuals.Very interesting indeed... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Lee Posted June 22, 2009 Author Posted June 22, 2009 I read about a scientific study, where the researchers were surprised to discover, that homophobic males (hating gays) got more sexually aroused when watching gay porn, than males with a more relaxed attitude toward homosexuals.Very interesting indeed...Well I am sure glad that I am not homophobic because I once watch a movie with a girl making it with two guys and then one of the guys jumped behind the other and he did the other guy from behind and I got disgusted and threw the movie in the garbage. I never did get to see the end of that movie and did not even care if it might have contained the best male female sex scenes on this planet. I am sorry but for some reason I can seem to understand two women together because in my mind they are usually soft and feminine, but the thought of two men together really turns me off and I do not even care if one is a girly boy. Maybe that is because I am a man, because a lot of women that I have known during my life seem to be turned off by two women together and most seemed to also be turned off by the thought of two men as well. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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