When Is It Time?

[palu]

I am throwing this up for discussion. I have been talking to a filipina for over three months. Started twice a day and then she broke off with me after 2 months. Two weeks later she contacts me again and we have been back at it since. She stated that I was too jealous first time.Since we got back together I have been sending her small amounts of money. She also knows that I am coming to see her  end of February.. I am beginning to feel uneasy in that she still has her profile up in the dating site where we met and that she continues to check it at least daily.Should I ask her to disable it or wait for her to do so? I am beginning to get bad feelings here.

[Lou49]

I am throwing this up for discussion. I have been talking to a filipina for over three months. Started twice a day and then she broke off with me after 2 months. Two weeks later she contacts me again and we have been back at it since. She stated that I was too jealous first time.Since we got back together I have been sending her small amounts of money. She also knows that I am coming to see her  end of February.. I am beginning to feel uneasy in that she still has her profile up in the dating site where we met and that she continues to check it at least daily.Should I ask her to disable it or wait for her to do so? I am beginning to get bad feelings here.

Don't send money. Many if not most of the online dating site gals have multiple chat mates. And many of those chat mate guys send cash. It is a game and a way to make a living. 

[MikeB]

Since we got back together I have been sending her small amounts of money. She also knows that I am coming to see her  end of February.

You're not "back together". You were never "together". You're thousands of miles away sending money to a stranger. Expect another breakup just before you arrive.

[Hey Steve]

Well, set up a second profile with a different pic and ask her if she's not seeing anyone and if she is interested in starting up a relationship with the second "you". If she answers sure...there's your answer as to why she won't disable or hide her profile. Good luck!

 

In the past I had always stated on my profile that the first dollar that changes hands comes after love's first kiss face to face. It usually exterminates a lot of the scammers.

[Steve & Myrlita]

If you make the 2nd account, use a VPN to change your IP address just to make sure your 2nd account isn't busted.

[pokermike]

You must be kidding Palu, you are feeling uneasy now. If there was any easy feelings it was with her when she was surprised that you would actually send her money. wise up dude , dont be a sucker.  later Pokermike

[Jack Peterson]

I am beginning to get bad feelings here.

 

 

 

Honest answer?    

[BrettGC]

As much as it may pain you mate, run, do not look back.

[Dave Hounddriver]

Started twice a day and then she broke off with me after 2 months. Two weeks later she contacts me again and we have been back at it since. She stated that I was too jealous first time.Since we got back together I have been sending her small amounts of money.

 

Is her name Jinky?  Just one of the girls I know who do that.  The two weeks would be when she had one of the other foreigners visiting her and she could not spend any time on line with you so she had to 'break up' for a while.   :hystery:

Edited November 11, 2014 by Dave Hounddriver

[pokermike]

Palu , just wait till you get there. you will have many women too chose from .  poker Mike