Age Doesn't Matter... Really???

[chris49]

And then my own case at 65, Gina is 25, and I'm not kidding on that's normal or anything like that. I can imagine even our "friends" could be sniggering behind our backs. What I can say however is that our relationship is accepted much more than it would be back in OZ Land.

 

And I wouldn't even make the usual, "she an exception, one of a kind" and so on, the more you are claiming that, the more you are covring the fact that no one's perfect, we all have issues at some level and anyone who denies that has more issues than I do.

 

I was in QC 6 years, had plenty of relationships inc getting burned once severely. In Metro I probably met 100's of girls below 30, nothing over 33-34, It was highly unusual to meet a woman with no kids. If so the girl was either very young, 19-20 and therefore immature, or if older and no kid, they had some kind of problem, whatever it might have been.

 

Then Gina. I'm in very good shape, but when looking in the mirror I still see a 65 yo man. And my brain is 65, no doubt it's slowed a bit.

 

But somehow we manage and that's the bottom line.

Edited May 17, 2015 by chris49

[chris49]

 

I wonder what the young girl thinks when she looks at her 'aged wrinkly' and what she truly thinks?

 

Ask her, but then you would not believe her reply because your mind is already made up.  At least it seems that way from your comment.  Am I wrong?

 

 

Dave, Mogo, I would not be so presumtuous as to know what they think, even Ging Ging.

[WordsandMusic]

Hey!!!! Dave Hounddriver, that was one of the most concise and intelligent statements I have read on this forum, that's saying a lot ! You are absolutely right in every sentence you took the time to compose. Though there is twenty years difference between my wife and I, and that to me is a lot of difference. I know all the things you listed were spot on from having phone conversations with her for 8 months before we ever met. I was introduced to her by her two sisters here in the states, after being friends with them for a few years. I knew what drove them in there relationships and that is what drove my wife to pick up the phone the first time I called her.   So, anyway right on Dave!!!!

[Old55]

It would be interesting to hear an honest answer from a Filipina.

 

We know that Chris, Dave and a number of other expats here have found true happiness. Maybe that's the answer.

Edited May 17, 2015 by Old55

[Tukaram (Tim)]

I would be interesting to hear an honest answer from a Filipina.

 

We know that Chris, Dave and a number of other expats here have found true happiness. Maybe that's the answer.

 

Who knows?  Mine says she loves me.  She acts like she loves me.  But how do you ever really know? But we seem to be doing ok  :tiphat:

[stevewool]

I am a great believer in showing someone love you will get it in return, sometimes it may not work out the way you think it should be, but it takes lots of work to make a good go at it,

[lonewolf]

with me and ana ,  her cousin introduced us. I tkedto her n linead made  2 tipshere to be with her an after 2 1/2 yars we finally married. I have no doubts about her love she is 33 and I m 64. I believe te understand the biblical amonition of set your affection and then lve came. she is a very hard worker. and never had a seious relationship since she worked hard sinc she ws sixteen when her father died. I believei got a real jewel

[chris49]

I would be interesting to hear an honest answer from a Filipina.

 

We know that Chris, Dave and a number of other expats here have found true happiness. Maybe that's the answer.

 

Yes, honest answer ok and I think they would, But would they have the ability to transfer their thoughts into a summary. Gina would struggle their I think, she might have a better chance to express her thoughts in Ilocano.

 

Most of these girls are concerned about a good moral code. Anything  like drinking or any kind of carousing is not tolerated, or if you are prone to having a few drinks, it's better to do it under their watchful eye. 

[stevewool]

You are right in what you say Chis, Ems my wife tells me she loves me but she also told me if i ever told her i dont love her any more then  she would walk away,

[chris49]

with me and ana ,  her cousin introduced us. I tkedto her n linead made  2 tipshere to be with her an after 2 1/2 yars we finally married. I have no doubts about her love she is 33 and I m 64. I believe te understand the biblical amonition of set your affection and then lve came. she is a very hard worker. and never had a seious relationship since she worked hard sinc she ws sixteen when her father died. I believei got a real jewel

 

A lot of it is based that kind of sentiment, you think she's great and she fulfills your expectation.

 

I can't explain this really, but I find Gina to be very, very sexy, wheras she's not so pretty and might not have a big appeal to others, but for me she does. I have been with a few great beauties but did not find the same appeal. If I lie down and close my eyes, I will be thinking of her and not some fantasy girl. It's good sign because I always prefer to be home rather than out some where.

Edited May 17, 2015 by chris49