Forum Support Old55 Posted June 2, 2018 Author Forum Support Posted June 2, 2018 13 minutes ago, Mike J said: Your girlfriend has an 18 year old daughter. How old is the girlfriend? Just curious as normally, here anyway, the man is the elder in an "age gap" relationship. I was curious about that as well. We don't judge.... if you have a cougar it's all good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jollygoodfellow Posted June 3, 2018 Posted June 3, 2018 13 hours ago, bastonjock said: if your gf has young children ,you cannot even babysit ?. Technically no unless you are related or there is someone there who is older than 18 and Filipino. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rooster Posted June 3, 2018 Posted June 3, 2018 (edited) 21 hours ago, bastonjock said: if your gf has young children ,you cannot even babysit ?. Some think if just any Filipino 18 or over is present, the Foreigner is safe. Not true according to Philippine Attorney Laserna, The Law and The Philippine Supreme Court http://attylaserna.blogspot.com/2013/10/mel-sta-maria-are-there-criminal.html Republic Act 7610 also provides that if a "person, not a relative of a child, is found alone with the said child inside the room or cubicle of a house, an inn, hotel, motel, pension house, apartelle or other similar establishments, vessel, vehicle or any other hidden or secluded area under circumstances which would lead a reasonable person to believe that the child is about to be exploited in prostitution and other sexual abuse," this can be considered indicative of an attempt to have the child prostituted or subjected to sexual abuse. Also, some think if their girlfriend is at least 18 years old they are legal. Not true according to Philippine Law and The Philippine Supreme Court. Sec. 3. Definition of Terms. - (a) "Children" refers to person below eighteen (18) years of age or those over but are unable to fully take care of themselves or protect themselves from abuse, neglect, cruelty, exploitation or discrimination because of a physical or mental disability or condition; http://www.manilatimes.net/consensual-sex-minor-violation-law/305807/ http://pcw.gov.ph/law/republic-act-7610 I do not have a legal source reference concerning until what age someone can be considered a child in the Philippines. I have heard until age 25 but I do not know this to be correct. Many over 18 years of age could claim or perceived to be by Philippine authorities as unable to fully take care of themselves or protect themselves from abuse, neglect, cruelty, exploitation or discrimination because of a physical or mental disability or condition;. The Philippine Supreme Court has issued a clear Decision/Precedent on RA 7610 and those older than 18 years of age can be legally considered as """CHILDREN""""". https://www.lawphil.net/judjuris/juri2013/jun2013/gr_198732_2013.html Something to consider for anyone who challenges or deviates from RA 7610 or the Philippine Supreme Court Decision on RA 7610. Edited June 3, 2018 by Rooster 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FredMac Posted June 3, 2018 Posted June 3, 2018 On 7/6/2015 at 11:21 PM, i am bob said: On the contrary, this law - as all laws -are for everybody. If you sit down and read the newspapers, you will read about Filipinos being arrested for the same crime. It's just not reported in the news as often as it's not considered as news worthy as when a foreigner is arrested. It is probably due to the simple fact that Filipino-Filipina couples tend to be much nearer in age. No one seems to know exactly why filipinas like much older white guys -- barring the obvious. At any rate, a tall white 55 year old guy with a tiny 17 year old girl on his arm will attract farrrr more notice than the same girl with a Filipino boyfriend a few years older. It's hard. E.g. I more or less fell in love with an 18 year old Filipina that I met via Facebook -- only to find out that she was just over 17. She had sent me lots of compromising pics and vids and so that I wouldn't get charged with kiddie porn or whatever, I re-imaged the hard disc in that computer so that I didn't have anything. She was mature and smart and everything I wanted -- except 18! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bastonjock Posted June 3, 2018 Posted June 3, 2018 4 hours ago, Rooster said: Some think if just any Filipino 18 or over is present, the Foreigner is safe. Not true according to Philippine Attorney Laserna, The Law and The Philippine Supreme Court http://attylaserna.blogspot.com/2013/10/mel-sta-maria-are-there-criminal.html Republic Act 7610 also provides that if a "person, not a relative of a child, is found alone with the said child inside the room or cubicle of a house, an inn, hotel, motel, pension house, apartelle or other similar establishments, vessel, vehicle or any other hidden or secluded area under circumstances which would lead a reasonable person to believe that the child is about to be exploited in prostitution and other sexual abuse," this can be considered indicative of an attempt to have the child prostituted or subjected to sexual abuse. Also, some think if their girlfriend is at least 18 years old they are legal. Not true according to Philippine Law and The Philippine Supreme Court. Sec. 3. Definition of Terms. - (a) "Children" refers to person below eighteen (18) years of age or those over but are unable to fully take care of themselves or protect themselves from abuse, neglect, cruelty, exploitation or discrimination because of a physical or mental disability or condition; http://www.manilatimes.net/consensual-sex-minor-violation-law/305807/ http://pcw.gov.ph/law/republic-act-7610 I do not have a legal source reference concerning until what age someone can be considered a child in the Philippines. I have heard until age 25 but I do not know this to be correct. Many over 18 years of age could claim or perceived to be by Philippine authorities as unable to fully take care of themselves or protect themselves from abuse, neglect, cruelty, exploitation or discrimination because of a physical or mental disability or condition;. The Philippine Supreme Court has issued a clear Decision/Precedent on RA 7610 and those older than 18 years of age can be legally considered as """CHILDREN""""". https://www.lawphil.net/judjuris/juri2013/jun2013/gr_198732_2013.html Something to consider for anyone who challenges or deviates from RA 7610 or the Philippine Supreme Court Decision on RA 7610. 10 hours ago, Jollygoodfellow said: Technically no unless you are related or there is someone there who is older than 18 and Filipino. Guess that's also a blessing in disguise ," sorry dear I can't babysit your little darlings " it's against the law 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forum Support Old55 Posted June 3, 2018 Author Forum Support Posted June 3, 2018 Sorry to hear your story Fred I know that must have been difficult for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gator Posted June 3, 2018 Posted June 3, 2018 On 5/31/2018 at 8:31 PM, Dave Hounddriver said: One wonders how the US legal system would handle one of their Muslim citizens coming to Philippines and following local Sharia law and thus marrying a 16 year old. It could get very complicated. I don’t have time to research it now, but I believe there’s an exception in the law for them. Whereas they can not only marry a 16 year old girl, but also have multiple wives as well.....me thinks 4 or 5. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJReyes Posted June 3, 2018 Posted June 3, 2018 (edited) 50 minutes ago, Gator said: On 5/31/2018 at 6:31 PM, Dave Hounddriver said: One wonders how the US legal system would handle one of their Muslim citizens coming to Philippines and following local Sharia law and thus marrying a 16 year old. It could get very complicated. I don’t have time to research it now, but I believe there’s an exception in the law for them. Whereas they can not only marry a 16 year old girl, but also have multiple wives as well.....me thinks 4 or 5. There is the famous case of a well known Filipino folk singer, Freddie Aguilar who was threatened with arrest and imprisonment if he married his underage girlfriend. The girl's parents had given their consent, but the age gap between the two was like 30 or 40 years which is the reason for the controversy. So Freddie Aguilar became a convert to Islam; had a big public wedding in Mindanao; and the government couldn't do anything because Muslims are exempt. I recall his girl friend was 16 years at the time. The number of wives is four, provided you can support them. Some historians believe that battles diminished the male population. This was a way to provide financial support for young widows and replenish the population. Edited June 3, 2018 by JJReyes 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forum Support Old55 Posted June 3, 2018 Author Forum Support Posted June 3, 2018 There are exceptions to every rule especially in Philippines. Especially relating to Filipinos and more so wealthy Filipinos. I think we can all more or less agree as a Foreigner having a relationship with a young Filipina woman under 18 is not a good choice for a number of reasons. I think most of can understand how someone could honestly truly fall in love with a mature Filipina slightly under that age. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Hounddriver Posted June 3, 2018 Posted June 3, 2018 6 hours ago, JJReyes said: There is the famous case of a well known Filipino folk singer, Freddie Aguilar And the good news is, he is 65 this year and she is 21 and they are still together and she is pregnant and they are living happily ever after. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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