bows00 Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 And how can you pull this off without giving off the impression that you are an arrogant pompous ass? I don't mean to cause turmoil here, but I laugh when I read your suggestions. Your techniques are just that... techniques... all surface with no deep embedded true character. Your methods are no more than an extension of western ideologies. IMHO, you missed the whole point why I love the culture and the filipinas in it... Whatever happened to falling in love with a filipina you adore, and going the extra mile to truly understand what makes her happy... and giving her what she wants? And what is so wrong with falling so much in love that she comes first? In the long run, it is not about getting the most beautiful girl... exterior beauty wares thin very quickly in the scheme of everyday living... But that is just my opinion, I hope that did not refrain you from continuing the thread... I am all ears.. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sonjack2847 Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 "Are you married?" I have had Filipinas ask me that on multiple occasions even though I wear a wedding ring. It is also common to hear "Sir, where is your wife?". One young lady wanted to "join me" while having lunch at Ayala. I told her that would not be a good idea as I was waiting while my wife was shopping. I then said that the last time I sat with a Filipina, my wife chased her with a bolo. Not true of course, but she left in a hurry. :lol: Cruel, she only wanted to sell you insurance 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post RonHenk Posted November 19, 2015 Popular Post Posted November 19, 2015 Dear Doctor Love, This very cute little pinay keeps smiling at me every time she walks past my house. Do you think she REALLY likes me!!? Or is she just after my money? I'm not sure. Signed, Perplexed in PI 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vince Runza Posted November 19, 2015 Author Posted November 19, 2015 (edited) And how can you pull this off without giving off the impression that you are an arrogant pompous ass? I don't mean to cause turmoil here, but I laugh when I read your suggestions. Your techniques are just that... techniques... all surface with no deep embedded true character. Your methods are no more than an extension of western ideologies. IMHO, you missed the whole point why I love the culture and the filipinas in it... Whatever happened to falling in love with a filipina you adore, and going the extra mile to truly understand what makes her happy... and giving her what she wants? And what is so wrong with falling so much in love that she comes first? In the long run, it is not about getting the most beautiful girl... exterior beauty wares thin very quickly in the scheme of everyday living... But that is just my opinion, I hope that did not refrain you from continuing the thread... I am all ears.. Who said I'm not an arrogant pompous ass?! :1927_: Seriously, if you read the whole thread, you'd have seen this: This is for decent guys with a lack of confidence/experience, who want a satisfying LTR (Long Term Relationship). I know I'll lose a lot of followers when I get to the part where you have to actually plan your strategy, including taking a hard look at yourself. That's the point: this isn't a Pickup Guide. It's a plan for getting what you truly want and avoiding pitfalls, predators, and whacko birds. In Part 2, I'll go into what you bring to the table: who you are, what you want, what you have to offer her, and what to do next. Dear Doctor Love, This very cute little pinay keeps smiling at me every time she walks past my house. Do you think she REALLY likes me!!? Or is she just after my money? I'm not sure. Signed, Perplexed in PI Neither am I! No, really! Edited November 19, 2015 by Vince Runza 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vince Runza Posted November 19, 2015 Author Posted November 19, 2015 Then you need to do what I did. I upped my Game. Up yours~ Well, please enlighten us. I was hoping you could show us how, specifically how to "up my game".... But let me guess what that may entail... Look in the mirror, and repeat phrases that will reinforce that I am a God to all the women in the philippines? hmmm.. nope, I don't think that would work. i would enjoy having a beer with you one day Mr. Runza. Then you could demonstrate to me how it is done. Wrong guess! This is about planning, taking your time, and screening out troublemakers. On the other hand, if you're an edge junkie who wants tons of Hot Babes, night after night, here's a plan: Move to a condominium in Fort Bonifacio or Makati Have at least $5KUSD/mo. income Dress to kill Find all the hot night spots for expats Don't fall in love Does that help? 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas Posted November 19, 2015 Posted November 19, 2015 Oh, for you married guys. Maybe you should get a T-shirt made with a picture of your wife, holding a bolo, glaring, and the words, "He's Taken!" That can be a business idea :) which can be combined with mine about handling "Kano prices". 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vince Runza Posted November 27, 2015 Author Posted November 27, 2015 (edited) Oh, for you married guys. Maybe you should get a T-shirt made with a picture of your wife, holding a bolo, glaring, and the words, "He's Taken!"That can be a business idea :) which can be combined with mine about handling "Kano prices". What, "I don't wanna pay Kano prices. I'm Swedish!"? Edited November 27, 2015 by Vince Runza Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Methersgate Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 (edited) Wrong guess! This is about planning, taking your time, and screening out troublemakers. On the other hand, if you're an edge junkie who wants tons of Hot Babes, night after night, here's a plan: Move to a condominium in Fort Bonifacio or Makati Have at least $5KUSD/mo. income Dress to kill Find all the hot night spots for expats Don't fall in love Does that help? Just "hot night spots"; at that level in society it does not matter if you are an expat or the scion of an ancient mestizo dynasty of landowners. I do not move in such circles, but I recall a memory from twenty years ago, when the "in" place was the disco in the Makati Shangri-La. On the dance floor, a girl who definitely qualified as a Hot Babe was dancing whilst holding a mobile phone in each hand and texting on both of them at the same time. Try keeping up with that one! Edited November 27, 2015 by Methersgate 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vince Runza Posted November 27, 2015 Author Posted November 27, 2015 (edited) On the dance floor, a girl who definitely qualified as a Hot Babe was dancing whilst holding a mobile phone in each hand and texting on both of them at the same time. Try keeping up with that one! I need a nap after just reading that! For those interested, an updated list of venues to check out is: Opus, Republiq, 7'th High, Establishment. I will NOT tell you where I got that list! Edited November 27, 2015 by Vince Runza 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas Posted November 27, 2015 Posted November 27, 2015 Oh, for you married guys. Maybe you should get a T-shirt made with a picture of your wife, holding a bolo, glaring, and the words, "He's Taken!"That can be a business idea :) which can be combined with mine about handling "Kano prices". What, "I don't wanna pay Kano prices. I'm Swedish!"? That can be an alternative too :) Mine is something like: "I'm puti not stupid :) " pointing at it and SMILE when they try to get "kano price" *puti mean white. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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