Etiquette question, with Filipina interacting with other ladies

[Old55]

While having a Dim Sim lunch with my wife evidently I "smiled to big" at the waitress... So was I informed. My wife may have been messing with me but not sure. 

Guys just what are the rules smiling at with or around other ladies while with ones wife?

 

[Dave Hounddriver]

28 minutes ago, Old55 said:

Guys just what are the rules smiling at with or around other ladies while with ones wife?

No tongue and not too much teeth 

[Reboot]

Was she hot?

[Old55]

20 minutes ago, Reboot said:

Was she hot?

Oh yea. My first serious GF was Chinese, my wife found some old pictures of us soon after she arrived here so.......

Edited January 26, 2017 by Old55

[Reboot]

Watch it you might end up sleeping in the bodega LOL.

[Bruce]

This is a good time to tell her about the 'wife recall'. Yes, you will miss her but that waitress will help you get over it!  Seriously, I spent 10 years in OB/GYN and have no tolerance for jealous women. You really want to grow old with a woman who is always 'watching you'? I have better things to do than explain myself... again and again....

[Dave Hounddriver]

13 minutes ago, Bruce said:

You really want to grow old with a woman who is always 'watching you'?

And ditto in reverse.  We should not hang around to grow old with a woman who always 'needs watching' as i recently discovered.

[sonjack2847]

In reality the etiquette you need to follow is whatever your wife says to a certain extent.If your wife is overbearing then you need to have a talk.I would not put with being watched all the time and I would not do it.I know some expats who are literally stifled by their wives or girlfriends and I know some expats who do it.

It`s a bit like having good manners whereas if you know something upsets somebody out of good manners you shouldn`t do it.There are exceptions,  if the demand is too high then show them the door.

[Jack Peterson]

3 hours ago, Old55 said:

Guys just what are the rules smiling at with or around other ladies while with ones wife?

 My Wife thinks it is Hilarious that I do on occasions I remember one time at Co Co's she told one of the Servers that made a remark about not seeing me for some time ( we had Boycotted for a while) he has no money Honey, His Wife has it all Server, Exit Stage left

 In all seriousness I don't have any real problem if she is with me. It is when she is not I get some Aggro on my return Home.

 Gently does it is my Motto always remembering, that you can "look but not Touch"

 Having said this my Wife is a Big Flirt so................................ 

Edited January 26, 2017 by Jack Peterson
added a little

[jpbago]

1 hour ago, sonjack2847 said:

It`s a bit like having good manners whereas if you know something upsets somebody out of good manners you shouldn`t do it.

Agree, I look but I don't twist my neck and make it obvious and I never comment on another woman. Not even on TV. Awhile back, a group of us were chatting and she asked "Did you see that woman at the bank?" My answer was "I don't look at other woman." Well, that went over quite well in the group (of the ones that understood English) and it has satisfied her ever since. She does not look nor comment on other men.

Edited January 26, 2017 by jpbago
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