Strangers causing trouble.

[AlwaysRt]

I had a similar experience before getting married, like you the icing on the cake was one of the 'verified 100% accurate' sightings of me having fun with other girls in Dumaguete was at the same time my partner and I were spending the day in Dauin. Kind of hard to be in Duma and Dauin at the same time so that completly finished off any doubt she might have had remaining since some of them can be pretty convincing. 

[Gary D]

There are two olympic sports in the Philippines, gossip and insecurity.

[Gator]

On 9/3/2017 at 4:15 AM, Snowy79 said:

As I said since then I've been accused of two things that were impossible to have happened so now she believes me. I'm sure the next person that lies to her had better look out as I'm ready to cause serious trouble with her emloyer. 

Your going about it the wrong way mate. Next time turn it around on the messenger, sit back and enjoy the shock as well as the look on their faces. That's what my SO does and we get a huge laugh about it. 

What I mean is that my SO will, after being told I've sexed so and so, will turn to me, fill me in and ask me things like: Did you enjoy her? Did you give her the 10k like you always do? Plus a big tip if she was good? Next time you see her let me know so I can watch or at least take some photos! 

It totally deflates the wind in the messenger's sails, makes them think that if it was true that I gave them some exorbitant amount of money and they can now borrow from so and so, lol. Bottom line, once they see that their lies have no effect on your gf then they will stop.    

[Mr-T]

On September 3, 2017 at 8:34 PM, Gary D said:

Simple to solve, stop going to bars

Yes i agree. I never go to bars here. I stock up on my wine or beer or what ever i like to drink and i relax at home and drink if i feel like, not a drinker but once in awhile i do. Bars here are not like back home U.S. Plus it is not safe for foreigners. 

[Jack Peterson]

2 minutes ago, Mr-T said:

Bars here are not like back home U.S. Plus it is not safe for foreigners. 

Neither are some Women apparently 

[Snowy79]

25 minutes ago, Jack Peterson said:

Neither are some Women apparently 

Or the women that go into the bars which is a bonus  

I'm the opposite. I couldn't think of anything worse than siting at home drinking. I'm not into alcohol at the best of times but I like to socialise.

The bars I drink in are more like restaurant bars or bars with no music so I can chat. 

Sadly the jealousy and rumours dont have the exclusive source in bars. My friends have had it from maids, sari sari workers, girlfriends friends etc. 

[mogo51]

On 9/3/2017 at 0:17 PM, sonjack2847 said:

You could always blotter her,I read a few months ago that a girl got put in prison for telling lies.

Shit Kev, the gaols must be full.

[mogo51]

A sad but not surprising story Snowy, my only suggestion is to stay out of girlie bars.

[Jack Peterson]

2 hours ago, Snowy79 said:

Sadly the jealousy and rumours dont have the exclusive source in bars.

Which My friend comes under WOMEN and I guess we can take that in general and certainly here 

[sonjack2847]

1 hour ago, mogo51 said:

Shit Kev, the gaols must be full.

No not yet mate