Why Play Games?

[Jollygoodfellow]

13 hours ago, Kris Allen said:

I was going to hire a private investigator to see why she is vanishing.

Could do it yourself. Just set up a fake facebook profile with a picture of a good looking guy and send a friend request. If she takes the request you then chat her and find out what she will say or do such as meet you etc.

[stevewool]

Move on , why waste your time on someone who does this.

[PaulB]

Sometimes it is best not to play all your cards at once. In other wards don't pay for everything at once. Drip feed your income and make yourself eventually invaluable. If she loves you it won't matter how much you spend or what you give her.

Just a thought. I did it this way and have been very lucky.

Paul

[Kris Allen]

Wow thank you all so much for your replies. The $7000. was my trip there, my lawyer here, mostly, little to her. She never wants my money but I often send it then tell her so she can't say no.  I have dated many from all over the Philippines and every one I had caught cheating in time, after all how hard would it be to cheat if your heart wasn't true. Yes here in the USA as well, I am not just saying it is a Philippine thing BUT.... I guess what I am saying is a really am a sucker for their women, black hair, black eyes and tiny sexy bodies how could I not..........just wish I found one who was well educated and wasn't a player with things in common.

[Kris Allen]

21 hours ago, Jollygoodfellow said:

Could do it yourself. Just set up a fake facebook profile with a picture of a good looking guy and send a friend request. If she takes the request you then chat her and find out what she will say or do such as meet you etc.

What a GREAT idea, Thank You!

[Kris Allen]

On 4/7/2018 at 12:16 AM, Reboot said:

Hi Kris. It's easy to see why you fell in love with her. She's beautiful. But maybe she isn't a good one for you. From what you say, she isn't 100% for you. I pray you find a woman who is. There are many out there so don't lose hope. I found one and I am not half as good looking as you.

She was amazing for almost 2 years and then it fell apart fast. I could not just bring her over without knowing she was in this for love, maybe I waited too long? I guess it would be safe to say I may never know. Yes she is a beautiful girl, she has changed so much in 2 years.

[JDDavao II]

19 hours ago, PaulB said:

Sometimes it is best not to play all your cards at once. In other wards don't pay for everything at once. Drip feed your income and make yourself eventually invaluable. If she loves you it won't matter how much you spend or what you give her.

Just a thought. I did it this way and have been very lucky.

Paul

Initially, I went overboard with paying for things with my (now) wife. We met online (not a dating site) as she was preparing to leave her location to stay with her extended family. I had grown so enamored that I was afraid I might lose her. I sent her load, I sent her money for the ferry, etc., etc. I was trying to tie her to me with money. She finally told me to STOP! She had enough money.

That's when the lightbulb went on over my head that read, "She likes you for you, stupid."

[Snowy79]

As in the West most young girls change over time. I'm sure I've said it before on here but if a guy is a di@k he tends to stay one all his life. It's inprinted in our DNA. Women however tend to go through phases in life. It's like their facination for changing clothes 5 times before going out. 

Being involved with anyone under 30 then you're risking the roll of a dice as to what character she is going to turn into next.  Add into the mix poverty nd the education system over here then it's a mine field. My money says you're one of a few boyfriends and the others may be getting more of her attention as they are even more blinded by lust and opening their wallets further.