How Do You Know If She Is An Escort Or A Good Girl?

[Fast&Furious]

Hello...hard issue here...and since I don't know the local culture, I hope I won't offend anyone.On a dating website, I'm getting a lot of interest from very young girls like 20 years old....and it's quite unusual since I'm in my mid 30s, however I'm still athletic and tall.But...looking at some of them...I mean...here in Australia I won't have a chance unless I had $10 million cash and drive a Ferrari.Once I get there...I really do not want to end up with an escort, I am not interested....not even if she pays me.....I just want to find a loyal good wife.Thank you

[ironmaiden]

The only sure way to find out is to actually go to the Philippines and get to know them better. You'll find out soon enough is she's only interested in your money OR you and your money. Money is important in every relationship, no matter where you go. You will always have more "attraction" when you can live a very comfortable life... And by the way, mid 30's is still considered "young" for a man here. It's too easy to lie on the internet, so you can't really find out for sure that way... If you really want to find a good wife, make sure you have enough time for searching. The less time you have, the easier you are fooled...

[Mr Lee]

Hello...hard issue here...and since I don't know the local culture, I hope I won't offend anyone.On a dating website, I'm getting a lot of interest from very young girls like 20 years old....and it's quite unusual since I'm in my mid 30s, however I'm still athletic and tall.But...looking at some of them...I mean...here in Australia I won't have a chance unless I had $10 million cash and drive a Ferrari.Once I get there...I really do not want to end up with an escort, I am not interested....not even if she pays me.....I just want to find a loyal good wife.Thank you

Two of the key issues which show to me that a woman may not make a good wife is, if she asks for substantial amounts of money before meeting you, or if she asks too much about items related to getting to your country. If she is only interested in you and your life, then that is probably a good lady to get to know more. Ask her about her place where she now lives, and ask her about where her family is from, and as long as her interests lie in you, then she is probably not an escort or as they often call them here GRO for Guests Relations Officer. Nice title for often not so nice work. As said in the post above, only once you get to meet and spend time with the lady will you get to know her true self.

[Jim Sibbick]

Hello...hard issue here...and since I don't know the local culture, I hope I won't offend anyone.On a dating website, I'm getting a lot of interest from very young girls like 20 years old....and it's quite unusual since I'm in my mid 30s, however I'm still athletic and tall.But...looking at some of them...I mean...here in Australia I won't have a chance unless I had $10 million cash and drive a Ferrari.Once I get there...I really do not want to end up with an escort, I am not interested....not even if she pays me.....I just want to find a loyal good wife.Thank you

You can't tell online if they are good girls or not.Better to be introduced by an expat in the Philippines. To do this, just attend some of the regular expat facilities.If you want to tell if she is interested in you and not just a ticket to Australia, tell her you are seriously thinking of living permanently in the Philippines after getting married.Regards: Jim

[Sampaguita]

Hello...hard issue here...and since I don't know the local culture, I hope I won't offend anyone.On a dating website, I'm getting a lot of interest from very young girls like 20 years old....and it's quite unusual since I'm in my mid 30s, however I'm still athletic and tall.But...looking at some of them...I mean...here in Australia I won't have a chance unless I had $10 million cash and drive a Ferrari.Once I get there...I really do not want to end up with an escort, I am not interested....not even if she pays me.....I just want to find a loyal good wife.Thank you

Common sense and good judgment which is something many of the men seem to lack since most have already been divorced numerous times, so if they did not know their own women, how are they to understand us. Find an older and more mature lady and you should have a better chance of getting someone real.

[Kari Javier]

I often browse women's profiles in dating sites and I could tell right away if they're an escort or not (not sure if that's an ability inherent to women). But surefire ways of telling are the way she describes herself (pretty, big boobs, will rock your world) and the words she uses. I'm assuming a good woman will take responsibility for educating herself whatever the circumstances are. Hey, if you can spend hours on dating site might as well sign up for some literacy lessons online. Also if she starts complaining even a wee bit about how hard her life expect that she'll start asking you for money which also means she has escort tendencies.

[Mike S]

I think we are talking about to different things here .... escorts are in other countries referred to as ladies of the evening or pay for play where as a girl maybe a GOOD girl but just greedy ..... for long term relationships both should be avoided ..... IMHO ...... oh and you CAN develop a relationship on line but as the old saying goes "the proof of the pudding ... is the eating there of" (Jake will get that saying) ...... and although I have the utmost respect for Jim and his long years of experience here in the Phils ...... I wouldn't except ANY ex-pats recommendation for a girlfriend unless he was a VERY good friend ..... for various reasons ..... some ex-pats are miserable here and misery loves company ..... some ex-pats are pressured to pass off extended family members to other foreigners ...... and some may just want you to help shoulder the cost of supporting the extended family ..... IMHO ......

[cebu rocks]

Heres one of the best ways to weed out bad girls . make a few good friends here with wifes that are good take your sweet heart to the wifes and let them check her out for you.Just ask the friends wifes to see if shes a good girl they love to play spy and will tell you the truth.its amazing how the girls here will tell each other everything in a few hours of meeting . If your date does not get along with the other wifes theres a big red flag the good girls stick together and leave the bad ones on the out skirts .My sweetheart made friends in a few short hours its easy to tell they will do each others nails, their hair, go shopping ,hold hands etc .Another tell is take her out for drinks buy tequila shots (most pinas like tequila) a good girl will sip it and a escort will down it no problem lol really good girls will not drink at all

[Medic Mike]

Personally, if we are talking about online exchanges only, I found the most legit ladies, were the ladies that spoke to you, the way you would expect on a normal date. Small talk, where you from? what do you do? etc etc....if it is not too one sided but a give and take in regards to the conversation, and no talk or hints that she needs money, than probably you have a keeper, or at least a girl that is worth meeting in person to see if the mutual chemistry is there.