Art2ro Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 My thoughtsI will give money for emergencies but not all that is required. Others have to make an effort too!For business requests, ask them to show how the business will make money. This usually makes it easy to show how it will not. For non emergency requests for money, tell them they will have to work for it. Something along the lines of...I had to work hard for my money, if you want some of it, you will have to work too!There is always something to do. Some suggestions:-- drive the car- maintenance on the car- maintenance on the house- baby sitter- wash the clothes- cook meals- building project- work in the family business- massageand moreMy favourite is massage!It is surprising how many don't need money if they have to work for it. If you decide to give money, never call it a loan. Say it is a gift. That way, there is no loss of face when the money is not repaid.Regards: Jim Sibbick Everything is fine except for - massages and more, not a good idea! I would warn anyone from doing that, because most decent Filipinos frond upon that, because it suggests one wants other things like a little hanky panky coming from a foreigner! JMHO! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inspector Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 My thoughtsI will give money for emergencies but not all that is required. Others have to make an effort too!For business requests, ask them to show how the business will make money. This usually makes it easy to show how it will not. For non emergency requests for money, tell them they will have to work for it. Something along the lines of...I had to work hard for my money, if you want some of it, you will have to work too!There is always something to do. Some suggestions:-- drive the car- maintenance on the car- maintenance on the house- baby sitter- wash the clothes- cook meals- building project- work in the family business- massageand moreMy favourite is massage!It is surprising how many don't need money if they have to work for it. If you decide to give money, never call it a loan. Say it is a gift. That way, there is no loss of face when the money is not repaid.Regards: Jim Sibbick Everything is fine except for - massages and more, not a good idea! I would warn anyone from doing that, because most decent Filipinos frond upon that, because it suggests one wants other things like a little hanky panky coming from a foreigner! JMHO! Really? I get massages from anybody willing, men or woman...no matter to me. I am aging, have had some spinal fusions with steel and still try and pump the heavy weights, so I find massages a great pain relief and something better then some vicodins, as it is natural. It also reduces stress...not sure why so many people still feel massages is related with sex. My dad was the same way, thinking of this massage/sex connection, and will refuse any gift massages...must be what they were like at one time. But there is no way I am giving up one the better aspects of living in the Philippines, the cheap massage...because of some silly minded thoughts. I had a russian lady coming to my house to give me a home massage for 4 years after my surgery, insurance covered it, and she was quite attractive, but never one time did I think of "sex". Oddly enough, I had the thing enlarge only one time...when a drop dead gorgeous dude was giving me a massage. Nothing more then a testosterone surge at that moment, yeah...so I had no issue with it, nor did he. No "happy" ending...and he could of thought I was as gay as he wanted...could not care less, cause I'm quite secure in my closet....I mean sexuality. :yes:So, if a legal aged family member or friend want to make a few pesos, and know HOW to massage, hell, I even shipped out a 300 dollar massage table a few years back for that very purpose, then have at this old hairy body. My bed is for my one woman, and my privacy part of my relationship...well, sometimes the kitchen table too. My massage table is for relieving pain, and stress. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 My thoughtsI will give money for emergencies but not all that is required. Others have to make an effort too!For business requests, ask them to show how the business will make money. This usually makes it easy to show how it will not. For non emergency requests for money, tell them they will have to work for it. Something along the lines of...I had to work hard for my money, if you want some of it, you will have to work too!There is always something to do. Some suggestions:-- drive the car- maintenance on the car- maintenance on the house- baby sitter- wash the clothes- cook meals- building project- work in the family business- massageand moreMy favourite is massage!It is surprising how many don't need money if they have to work for it. If you decide to give money, never call it a loan. Say it is a gift. That way, there is no loss of face when the money is not repaid.Regards: Jim Sibbick Everything is fine except for - massages and more, not a good idea! I would warn anyone from doing that, because most decent Filipinos frond upon that, because it suggests one wants other things like a little hanky panky coming from a foreigner! JMHO! Really? I get massages from anybody willing, men or woman...no matter to me. I am aging, have had some spinal fusions with steel and still try and pump the heavy weights, so I find massages a great pain relief and something better then some vicodins, as it is natural. It also reduces stress...not sure why so many people still feel massages is related with sex. My dad was the same way, thinking of this massage/sex connection, and will refuse any gift massages...must be what they were like at one time. But there is no way I am giving up one the better aspects of living in the Philippines, the cheap massage...because of some silly minded thoughts. I had a russian lady coming to my house to give me a home massage for 4 years after my surgery, insurance covered it, and she was quite attractive, but never one time did I think of "sex". Oddly enough, I had the thing enlarge only one time...when a drop dead gorgeous dude was giving me a massage. Nothing more then a testosterone surge at that moment, yeah...so I had no issue with it, nor did he. No "happy" ending...and he could of thought I was as gay as he wanted...could not care less, cause I'm quite secure in my closet....I mean sexuality. :yes:So, if a legal aged family member or friend want to make a few pesos, and know HOW to massage, hell, I even shipped out a 300 dollar massage table a few years back for that very purpose, then have at this old hairy body. My bed is for my one woman, and my privacy part of my relationship...well, sometimes the kitchen table too. My massage table is for relieving pain, and stress. :) Kitchen table.....?? I thought I was the only one....he, he. On top of a washing machine in spin cycle with an imbalanced load does the trick also.All kidding aside, I think Jim Sibbick's suggestions have some merit. They can be assigned some laboraround the house or property but will be strictly supervised -- lessons learned from my own experience.As far as getting massages from Judy's relatives, no way......too much temptation!Jake Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inspector Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 My thoughtsI will give money for emergencies but not all that is required. Others have to make an effort too!For business requests, ask them to show how the business will make money. This usually makes it easy to show how it will not. For non emergency requests for money, tell them they will have to work for it. Something along the lines of...I had to work hard for my money, if you want some of it, you will have to work too!There is always something to do. Some suggestions:-- drive the car- maintenance on the car- maintenance on the house- baby sitter- wash the clothes- cook meals- building project- work in the family business- massageand moreMy favourite is massage!It is surprising how many don't need money if they have to work for it. If you decide to give money, never call it a loan. Say it is a gift. That way, there is no loss of face when the money is not repaid.Regards: Jim Sibbick Everything is fine except for - massages and more, not a good idea! I would warn anyone from doing that, because most decent Filipinos frond upon that, because it suggests one wants other things like a little hanky panky coming from a foreigner! JMHO! Really? I get massages from anybody willing, men or woman...no matter to me. I am aging, have had some spinal fusions with steel and still try and pump the heavy weights, so I find massages a great pain relief and something better then some vicodins, as it is natural. It also reduces stress...not sure why so many people still feel massages is related with sex. My dad was the same way, thinking of this massage/sex connection, and will refuse any gift massages...must be what they were like at one time. But there is no way I am giving up one the better aspects of living in the Philippines, the cheap massage...because of some silly minded thoughts. I had a russian lady coming to my house to give me a home massage for 4 years after my surgery, insurance covered it, and she was quite attractive, but never one time did I think of "sex". Oddly enough, I had the thing enlarge only one time...when a drop dead gorgeous dude was giving me a massage. Nothing more then a testosterone surge at that moment, yeah...so I had no issue with it, nor did he. No "happy" ending...and he could of thought I was as gay as he wanted...could not care less, cause I'm quite secure in my closet....I mean sexuality. :yes:So, if a legal aged family member or friend want to make a few pesos, and know HOW to massage, hell, I even shipped out a 300 dollar massage table a few years back for that very purpose, then have at this old hairy body. My bed is for my one woman, and my privacy part of my relationship...well, sometimes the kitchen table too. My massage table is for relieving pain, and stress. :cheersty: Kitchen table.....?? I thought I was the only one....he, he. On top of a washing machine in spin cycle with an imbalanced load does the trick also.All kidding aside, I think Jim Sibbick's suggestions have some merit. They can be assigned some laboraround the house or property but will be strictly supervised -- lessons learned from my own experience.As far as getting massages from Judy's relatives, no way......too much temptation!Jake :lol:Spin cycle! Haha!Jake, remember my porno loving maid? Well, she would massage me (GF ALWAYS in the room) ...just the back area of course. Anyway...we stopped that when we trailed her safari browser history while we were out, and one of the videos she watched was a massage table sex scene...Julz had a shetfit. :hystery:Guess I was the meat on her dinner fantasy...needless to say, yeah, guess things can happen...on both ends. Not sure how you would avoid a primed massage giver after she sets her sights on any possible tent you create? :any-help:Anyway, I like the Thai massage with the stretching...guys are better at that aspect. :) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Art2ro Posted June 2, 2011 Author Posted June 2, 2011 My thoughtsI will give money for emergencies but not all that is required. Others have to make an effort too!For business requests, ask them to show how the business will make money. This usually makes it easy to show how it will not. For non emergency requests for money, tell them they will have to work for it. Something along the lines of...I had to work hard for my money, if you want some of it, you will have to work too!There is always something to do. Some suggestions:-- drive the car- maintenance on the car- maintenance on the house- baby sitter- wash the clothes- cook meals- building project- work in the family business- massageand moreMy favourite is massage!It is surprising how many don't need money if they have to work for it. If you decide to give money, never call it a loan. Say it is a gift. That way, there is no loss of face when the money is not repaid.Regards: Jim Sibbick Everything is fine except for - massages and more, not a good idea! I would warn anyone from doing that, because most decent Filipinos frond upon that, because it suggests one wants other things like a little hanky panky coming from a foreigner! JMHO! Really? I get massages from anybody willing, men or woman...no matter to me. I am aging, have had some spinal fusions with steel and still try and pump the heavy weights, so I find massages a great pain relief and something better then some vicodins, as it is natural. It also reduces stress...not sure why so many people still feel massages is related with sex. My dad was the same way, thinking of this massage/sex connection, and will refuse any gift massages...must be what they were like at one time. But there is no way I am giving up one the better aspects of living in the Philippines, the cheap massage...because of some silly minded thoughts. I had a Russian lady coming to my house to give me a home massage for 4 years after my surgery, insurance covered it, and she was quite attractive, but never one time did I think of "sex". Oddly enough, I had the thing enlarge only one time...when a drop dead gorgeous dude was giving me a massage. Nothing more then a testosterone surge at that moment, yeah...so I had no issue with it, nor did he. No "happy" ending...and he could of thought I was as gay as he wanted...could not care less, cause I'm quite secure in my closet....I mean sexuality. :cheersty:So, if a legal aged family member or friend want to make a few pesos, and know HOW to massage, hell, I even shipped out a 300 dollar massage table a few years back for that very purpose, then have at this old hairy body. My bed is for my one woman, and my privacy part of my relationship...well, sometimes the kitchen table too. My massage table is for relieving pain, and stress. :) Really! It was just MHO! Anyway, your comments explained it all just fine! Enjoy your massages and have a pitcher of Mojo with Jake, he's the Man and my SS buddy! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Inspector Posted June 2, 2011 Posted June 2, 2011 My thoughtsI will give money for emergencies but not all that is required. Others have to make an effort too!For business requests, ask them to show how the business will make money. This usually makes it easy to show how it will not. For non emergency requests for money, tell them they will have to work for it. Something along the lines of...I had to work hard for my money, if you want some of it, you will have to work too!There is always something to do. Some suggestions:-- drive the car- maintenance on the car- maintenance on the house- baby sitter- wash the clothes- cook meals- building project- work in the family business- massageand moreMy favourite is massage!It is surprising how many don't need money if they have to work for it. If you decide to give money, never call it a loan. Say it is a gift. That way, there is no loss of face when the money is not repaid.Regards: Jim Sibbick Everything is fine except for - massages and more, not a good idea! I would warn anyone from doing that, because most decent Filipinos frond upon that, because it suggests one wants other things like a little hanky panky coming from a foreigner! JMHO! Really? I get massages from anybody willing, men or woman...no matter to me. I am aging, have had some spinal fusions with steel and still try and pump the heavy weights, so I find massages a great pain relief and something better then some vicodins, as it is natural. It also reduces stress...not sure why so many people still feel massages is related with sex. My dad was the same way, thinking of this massage/sex connection, and will refuse any gift massages...must be what they were like at one time. But there is no way I am giving up one the better aspects of living in the Philippines, the cheap massage...because of some silly minded thoughts. I had a Russian lady coming to my house to give me a home massage for 4 years after my surgery, insurance covered it, and she was quite attractive, but never one time did I think of "sex". Oddly enough, I had the thing enlarge only one time...when a drop dead gorgeous dude was giving me a massage. Nothing more then a testosterone surge at that moment, yeah...so I had no issue with it, nor did he. No "happy" ending...and he could of thought I was as gay as he wanted...could not care less, cause I'm quite secure in my closet....I mean sexuality. :yes:So, if a legal aged family member or friend want to make a few pesos, and know HOW to massage, hell, I even shipped out a 300 dollar massage table a few years back for that very purpose, then have at this old hairy body. My bed is for my one woman, and my privacy part of my relationship...well, sometimes the kitchen table too. My massage table is for relieving pain, and stress. :) Really! It was just MHO! Anyway, your comments explained it all just fine! Enjoy your massages and have a pitcher of Mojo with Jake, he's the Man and my SS buddy! Thanks! We'll have to share a pitcher as well one day...have to go now as my mom is going to give me a massage. :whistling:It better not move! :lol:Just kidding, my mom does not give me massages. :cheersty: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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